All motherhood journey’s come with their own unique challenges, and opportunities. There are different dynamics that work for every family, and for ours when my step-daughters are in tow, I had to rethink my methods. We are expecting an “ours” baby, and I already have a child from a previous relationship. I am thankful for…
Category: Relationships and Marriage
Changing My Paradigm On Marriage and Getting Real
You ever feel like you are the only one that has to be experiencing something? “No one could ever understand this circumstance because it is so unique to me.” Or even just felt like you couldn’t share something because at every corner you are waiting for someone to say, “I told you so”. Its no…
Then I Became A Wife
It has been a while since I have written. For a while, I had writers block. So many things happening, beautiful and fast. All the while, growing into a new role in my life and learning this new identity. On August 12, 2022, I became a wife. It has been a journey with so many…
Blending A Family and The Grace To Grow Into Your New Role
My fiancé has two girls (7 and 10), I bring my son (21 months) to our blending family. The wonderful thing about girls is they tend to be naturally nurturing and to see them in action with their soon to be stepbrother has been nothing short of absolutely sweet. I am not going to lie…
So It Came Back To You, But Do You Want It?
When my ex came back around, I knew it was for a reason. That reason was different than what I thought. If you have ever paid attention to Enneagram, this 10 year on and off again cycle with my now ex-fiancé had Enneagram 6w5 written all over it. A 6 is a Loyalist or otherwise…
When We Found Our Way Back To Each Other
This did not last, but read on to see how someone could convince themselves to give something a second chance even when they know they shouldn’t. Original Blog Post below: If you are someone who doesn’t believe in fate, this post isn’t for you. This post isn’t about second or third chances. This goes much…
Third Times A Charm…So I Thought
I have reached a new level of gratitude for Karmic lessons unfolding right before my eyes. Self love allows me to show up fully and give chances, it won’t keep me there for long though if it’s a bad or unhealthy relationship. What I’ve been through has helped me become more enlightened. My ex and…
Single Mom Dating Childs Father?! Huh?
That is the response I get when trying to explain how you can be a single mother, yet be romantically involved with your child’s father. Navigating a gray area like this is tricky, because I began this journey on my own. My sons father and I would break up, to make up in the first…
Do You Know How To Apologize?
When we were younger, we were always taught to “say sorry” when we had hurt someone’s feelings or if someone felt we wronged them in some way. Being taught this at an early age was wonderful and important, however, did we truly understand not only the importance of an apology, but how it is delivered?…